what's ur firstborn gonna be??

the other day i visited a friend who had just delivered an adorable bb boy last 12th september 07..she's my former schoolmate who has also been 1 of my dormmates for 3 consecutive years..nways,i met up with other schoolfrens too n we had friendly chats..n one of the debate was what would u like ur firstborn to be??do u prefer having a boy or a girl as ur 1st child??of course,having a girl as the 1st child,i would be bias if i say i prefer a girl..but then i'm the 1st in the family too,n i'm a girl..duhh,so of course i've the rights to say that!!ok,on another note,i think that by having girls as the firstborn,they often tend to be more responsible and caring towards their parents, brothers n sisters, reminding and planning for the family's birthdays and anniversaries, be it gifts or celebration, asking the fathers to eat their medicine n go to medical checkups bla,bla,bla..u get the idea..with guys, since they have this thing called egos,they dont usually do these things...girls touched people emotionally,guys do it with action..even more worse if the boy got married to a "queen control",(owh no,hope not la)
just this morning, i had the chance to watch Malaysia Hari Ini on TV3..they were discussing s'thing abt todays children upbringing.the Prof says that nowadays parents tend to be afraid of their children.they refuse to marah2 them in fear that they will run away...sian jugak..being parents today is not the same anymore compared to last time..now u have to update urselves with the latest so as to know what ur children r up to..nways, the Prof did share 5 kinds of LURVE LANGUAGE:-

• touch language-eg.hugging,kissing
• verbal language-eg. saying "i love u","u're a good girl","pandai anak mama nih"
• rewards/presents language-giving presents/rewards when they did s'thing right
• like a 'khidmat' language-whereby u support ur children by attending his Sports Day..
• alamak,luper la the last language!!!heheheh...

so,all i haf to do is watchout 4 my daughter's behavior and see which suits her best..by the way,which 1 r u??